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Hey friends, today, I am going to discuss with you all about your feelings when you find something new around your surroundings... new faces, new talks and new lifestyles... This kind of situation is, of course, faced by all of you- while joining a new workplace, or school, or tuition etc., where nobody knows you and you have nobody of your own, with whom you can share your feelings, except yourself! This situation is always experienced by women,who are newly married. In that situation, your mind wants to talk to those STRANGERS but is a little bit afraid, if something goes wrong... At that time, your reactions to the situation comes out in different forms... Sometimes in the form of a confused and jumbled-up conversation with second person, sometimes shivering of your voice makes you embarrassed, and often your feelings come out in the form of tears... This happens mostly with sensitive people who lack self-confidence and feel insecure. These people take some time to adapt themselves to the change that their life brought to them..
Let me tell you about my experience:
Even I was or maybe I am one of them! Let me tell you my personal experience of the first day in my school GMA. There were strangers all around! Nobody knew me and didn't even try to converse with me.. I had gathered some hopes in my mind to reply to someone if he/she speaks to me first! And when a new face asked my name, my shivering voice slipped out of my tongue.. thats bitter! You can't even imagine that I started crying in front of all. Do you know what happened next? A familiar face came in front of my eyes, and a sort of calmness and relief was found.. That little hope "I was not in strangers" relieved my mind of all the fears, insecurity, and concerns.
And today, those strangers have become an integral part of my life! Without them my life is just incomplete :^)
Now friends, I would like you to share your experience on the topic.. Keep commenting!
I appreciate your one another try to express human mind's unique state.
ReplyDeleteBut I think that the situation you are calling ALONE is actually beginning of something new. When we start something things are tough, and most of the time we are alone when we start!
At that time only belief on yourself is required.
And ALONE situation is something like this:
My friend (name hidden) born as elder son at both his mom's house and dad's house, everyone loved him. He went to school, due to his influential dad and mom's family, he got good group of friends in school. He grew up and went to college, with his helping nature he become favourite among teachers and friends. Then suddenly he lost his father, all relatives, all friends, all social contacts GONE in second.
He never stepped alone outside home, now finding jobs alone. He ALONE walking with love and company of his professional life contacts. He is truely _ALONE AMONG CROWD_ or I say ALONE IN MOB!
Do that person really don't possess any relative :( Its hard to believe and I have sympathy towards him...
ReplyDeleteRelatives are with RELATED to your good times. No good times not relatives.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes that person deserves sympathy, nothing else can be done for him.
I have experienced it as my first day on tution...ooooo strangers all around!!!
ReplyDeletedeep thoughts!
ReplyDeleteyes, there is a time when there are many people around but in that crowd we can't find anyone whom we can talk or share emotions. and at that time we feel all "alone"!
i dont how but i think that i am just remembering that day of 'yours'!
ReplyDeleteWhen i just turned and stared back and saw a 'new comer' is bearing some wet tears.
All was in hand was just to stare at the bench back...